If you think it is a shortcut to riches.
If you think you are incapable of making the money yourself.
If you think your beauty has a price tag.
If you think the guy is just a means to an end.
At the end of the day, you need to ask the question, why are you even considering money as the primary factor.
If you notice closely, it is a question born out of fear.
You are afraid of poverty, you are afraid of not having enough money in your life.
You are afraid of being unable to come across as someone worthy in society.
You are afraid of your incapability of being independent.
In a way, it’s the same as the common joke often told to men, “The fastest way to riches, is to find a rich father-in-law.”
Money might be able to afford you a comfortable lifestyle, but it does not come with the promise of love.
If you marry for money, you are inevitably sending a signal, that you are a product.
You tie the knot for money, and you will be the product that is sold.
And yes, don’t be surprised if you are treated in accordance.
And if you thought that the man you marry will not know this, that he will not find out, you’re absolutely wrong.
The man you marry for money, will be the man who will marry you for your looks or some other reason. Not for who you are.
He will treat you exactly as you asked him to treat you, without a heart.
So should you marry for money? Never. In fact you should never marry anyone to get anything at all.
You should marry when you are already one in your heart.
Until that happens, be single. Even if you end up being in your 80’s. I am not kidding.
Better to be single, than in a relationship for the wrong reasons.